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Today on The Love Hour 6-8pm: SERIAL DATING

2 Oct

This evening expect us to dissect the various definitions of serial dating.  We will be taking a look at the “old school” meaning all the way up to the modern day one.  There is also one then more type of serial dater, so look forward to tips on how to decipher from them.

There are plenty of reasons why people choose to serial date.  All are not bad.  Some of us may need to gain more of a serial dater mindset while others should lessen the one they have already.

All of this above will be discussed after our weekly zodiac descriptions and celebrity buzz.  Tune in from 6-8pm by going to wrnu.info.  Be on air @ 973 353 5746


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Today on “The Love Hour” from 6-8pm: “Can Attractive Men and Women have a Platonic Friendship?”

27 Mar

When men and women come together is it simply with the intention to procreate?  In older times it was customary for the woman to be in the household while the man goes to work. This made it less likely for both sexes to actually interact as friends.  There was this certain gender segregation.

Even TV and movies depict cross-sex friendships as impossible.  It all started with the 20 something year old movie, “When Harry Met Sally,” which made the notion that men and women could never be friends because deep down sex is always in the man’s membrane.  Then you have the TV shows where you can predict from the pilot that the leading scarlet will ultimately share a kiss or a night of passion with the steamy heart-throb male co-star.  Even Samantha in an episode of Sex and the City said, “Men are for fucking and woman are for friendships.”

I’ll be the first to admit that there is a certain degree of attraction between a man and a woman that is natural and undeniable, even if the relationship is platonic.  There is always some type of characteristics that urges a person to be around the other.

Most of the guy friends I have had has attempted to have some kind of romantic involvement with me.  They actual used the friendship as a way to get closer.  I’m sure I’m not the only one who has been through this.  Then I have guys who have remained my friends who have admitted to me that they thought about having sex with almost every female friend they have, including me.

Besides sexual attraction, there are more challenges men and women could face when attempting to have a cross-sex friendship.  Though it may be tricky, this type of friendship experts say is beneficial and necessary to have in today’s fast changing culture.  They have uncovered some basic truths about the cross-sex friendship. These truths and challenges will be discussed along with the danger of a cross-sex friendship when a person is in a relationship.  

Additionally, as usual, we will be analyzing the sexy zodiac signs and ending with the “Thought of the Day.”

To tune into “The Love Hour,” go to wrnu.info and click LISTEN LIVE.  To be on air call in at 973 353 5746.   As always, there is a link on the site to listen via smart phone.

Today on “The Love Hour” from 6-8pm: Intellectual Foreplay

20 Mar

So did you hear  about ANOTHER reality show that VH1 is about to air called Couples Therapy?  It actually should be called Celebrity Couples Therapy because it is full of reality stars and has beens.

Even though I love the guy, I hate to see DMX on the show with his wife.  The network previewed this clip of him going crazy screaming “I NEVER WANTED TO GET MARRIED”.  The show also features Vienna Girardi who won The Bachelor season 14 with her current boyfriend, Kasey Kahl, who happens to be a former The Bachelorette season 6  contender. I even recognized this gay couple on there who starred in  The A list New York,  a reality show on Logo. There relationship was known to be based on the physical more than anything else.

As I was watching the preview of this show I contemplated on how destructive these relationships seemed. It looked like they didn’t even know how to communicate with one another.

Then I took it upon myself to Google intellectual love, which brings me to the topic of today’s show.  Upon my search I discovered Intellectual Foreplay. The link introduced me to this book, the title being the same as our topic with an author by the name of Eve Hogan (please view my prior post).  Maybe it was this Intellectual Foreplay these celebrity couples were missing.

Today on “The Love Hour” we will investigate what it really means to use Intellectual Foreplay.  Additionally, we will explore reasons why this method is so crucial to use before going the distance with someone you just met and guidelines on how to utilize the method.

Furthermore, expect our infamous zodiac sign sex tips and our Thought of the Day ( a new addition to the show).

To listen in go to wrnu.info and click LISTEN LIVE!!! To be on air call in @ 973 353 5746. Remember there is a link to listen via smart phone and we can now be heard on speakers throughout Rutgers-Newark campus.

20 Mar

Intellectual Foreplay To Be Discussed Today on “The Love Hour” from 6-8pm

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Have you ever noticed that we tend to choose our partners by “looks good” or “feels good” only to wake up in the midst of relationships that really aren’t good?! One of the biggest mistakes we make at the beginning of a relationship is not asking enough questions. We tend to ask more questions about a car we are buying than about a lover, potential life mate or parent to our children.

When taking on any other endeavor—a business relationship, buying a house or appliances—we wisely ask a whole host of questions to ensure that we make the right choice. Can you imagine buying a house because it looks good and feels good without examining the costs, the condition of the property, serious damage, needed repairs, your readiness to move, your commitment to the payments, the previous owner’s readiness to sell, what the neighbors are like, and on and on?…

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Heidi and Seal are No More!

23 Jan

It is official.  The glorified pair, Heidi and Seal, the gazelle and songbird, has casually called it quits. This comes as a shocker to most since this newly separated couple had a reputation for finding new ways to put their love on display for the world to see.

Whether they were getting hot in heavy in Seal’s music video for the single “Secret,” performing a duet at the Victoria Secret Fashion Show, annually renewing their vows of their seven-year marriage, or spotted with their four kids, their union looked unbreakable.

Heidi ann Seal with the children

At Victoria Secret Fashion Show 2007

The Today Show even reported to Heidi having a tattoo of Seal’s name, symbolizing her commitment to him.  Matt Lauer of the Today Show jokingly said Heidi has the option of being a spokesperson for Sealy’s Mattresses.   

When justifying the split, it was reported to be unanimous among the two that they have grown apart.  However, TMZ says this is not the case.

According to the entertainment news medium, it was Seal’s temper and career differences that drove this couple to disaster.

Seal and Heidi in the "Secret" music video

Regardless of what caused the demise of the Heidi and Seal reign, the age old lesson to be learned in this situation is not to judge a book by its cover because everything that glitters ain’t gold.

New Day and Time for the “Love Hour” @ WRNU: The Campus Beat

18 Jan

Hello ladies and gents,

I’m back in gear with this whole blogging thing.  My first post of the year is dedicated to “The Love Hour,” a internet based radio show that I host at Rutgers-Newark.  Topics usually center around love, sex, dating, relationships, and single hood.  Along the way, we tend to be accompanied by special guests.  Normally the show airs on Wednesdays 6-8pm.  However, this spring semester we want to try something different.  Our new time slot, starting next week, is now Tuesday 6-8pm.  To listen, all you have to do is go to wrnu.info and click LISTEN LIVE.  I will also provide a link below.  Additionally, the station has made it possible to access shows via your mobile device.

Throughout the rest of the year, you can look to Unscriptedlovers (this blog) for the latest on the “Love Hour” and WRNU.

WRNU: The Campus Beat

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