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Today on “The Love Hour” from 6-8pm: “Can Attractive Men and Women have a Platonic Friendship?”

27 Mar

When men and women come together is it simply with the intention to procreate?  In older times it was customary for the woman to be in the household while the man goes to work. This made it less likely for both sexes to actually interact as friends.  There was this certain gender segregation.

Even TV and movies depict cross-sex friendships as impossible.  It all started with the 20 something year old movie, “When Harry Met Sally,” which made the notion that men and women could never be friends because deep down sex is always in the man’s membrane.  Then you have the TV shows where you can predict from the pilot that the leading scarlet will ultimately share a kiss or a night of passion with the steamy heart-throb male co-star.  Even Samantha in an episode of Sex and the City said, “Men are for fucking and woman are for friendships.”

I’ll be the first to admit that there is a certain degree of attraction between a man and a woman that is natural and undeniable, even if the relationship is platonic.  There is always some type of characteristics that urges a person to be around the other.

Most of the guy friends I have had has attempted to have some kind of romantic involvement with me.  They actual used the friendship as a way to get closer.  I’m sure I’m not the only one who has been through this.  Then I have guys who have remained my friends who have admitted to me that they thought about having sex with almost every female friend they have, including me.

Besides sexual attraction, there are more challenges men and women could face when attempting to have a cross-sex friendship.  Though it may be tricky, this type of friendship experts say is beneficial and necessary to have in today’s fast changing culture.  They have uncovered some basic truths about the cross-sex friendship. These truths and challenges will be discussed along with the danger of a cross-sex friendship when a person is in a relationship.  

Additionally, as usual, we will be analyzing the sexy zodiac signs and ending with the “Thought of the Day.”

To tune into “The Love Hour,” go to wrnu.info and click LISTEN LIVE.  To be on air call in at 973 353 5746.   As always, there is a link on the site to listen via smart phone.

20 Mar

Intellectual Foreplay To Be Discussed Today on “The Love Hour” from 6-8pm

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Have you ever noticed that we tend to choose our partners by “looks good” or “feels good” only to wake up in the midst of relationships that really aren’t good?! One of the biggest mistakes we make at the beginning of a relationship is not asking enough questions. We tend to ask more questions about a car we are buying than about a lover, potential life mate or parent to our children.

When taking on any other endeavor—a business relationship, buying a house or appliances—we wisely ask a whole host of questions to ensure that we make the right choice. Can you imagine buying a house because it looks good and feels good without examining the costs, the condition of the property, serious damage, needed repairs, your readiness to move, your commitment to the payments, the previous owner’s readiness to sell, what the neighbors are like, and on and on?…

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