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Today on “The Love Hour” from 6-8pm…

24 Jan

Today on the “Love Hour” we will be introducing East Orange, N.J native Lamar “Mar. Melo” Lucas, a 23 year-old  proclaimed rapper and ghostwriter of Yung Hu$tl3 Muzik GrouP (YHMG).

Throughout the show we will be officially airing his music, including his hot hit “Up and Away,” featuring Jay $padez and JuJu, two other talents of  YHMG.

Listen to “Up and Away”

Cover of "No Sleep" mixtape released Dec. 23rd

Mar. Melo will also be joining in on the topic of the night: “When Being a ‘Bitch’ Works”.  This topic was focused on in a previous post.

Keep up with Mar.Melo on Facebook, Twitter, and YHMG’s Youtube Channel.  Make sure to check out his other music releases on Soundcloud.com.

Tune in to the “Love Hour” tonight from 6-8pm by going to wrnu.info and clicking LISTEN LIVE.  We have also made it capable to listen to the show on your mobile device.  To be apart of the show call in at (973) 353-5746 to be on air.

When Being a “Bitch” Works

22 Jan

When a woman takes on the “bitch” role, she may radiate the perception that she is holding on to baggage. This hard exterior can give off the impression that this woman doesn’t have the capability to maintain an enjoyable relationship.

However, partially due to popular culture, there has been talk that the “bitchy” attitude can possibly attract and keep interest.

Last week, while I was driving home from school and Hot 97 was blaring in the car, “Make Me Proud” by Drake came on for the millionth time and I took the chance to listen to the lyrics meticulously.  The words that grasped most of my attention were in the first verse.  They went as follows:

“ A little attitude problem all good, it’ll make the shit last.
Don’t make it too easy, girl, don’t take it too fast…”


These words got me thinking, do guys  really go for girls with an attitude?  Do guys really like “bitchy” girls?

Have you ever witnessed  a girl who had the worst attitude and still able to have a line of men groveling for her?  She is an ice princess who is indecisive with the personality of the stereotypical supermodel but lacks the supermodel look and still capable of snagging a man or two.

Instead of keeping  their distance from women like this, you can find men gravitating toward them whereas, when a woman is too nice, the interest of the man decreases by the minute.  It is almost as if the men like the abuse.

Although being the nice girl seems like an easy good ole’ time, a woman who is too nice may run the risk of failing to convey her self-worth.  It also can look like a desperate attempt to gain approval.  Agreeing with everything a man says is an example of an eager  attempt to get then to like you.  Men are competitive so they like a little opposition from time to time and women shouldn’t   be afraid to give it to them.

Since nice guys finish last, is it safe to say the same for nice girls?


After surveying a number of men, Sherry Argov dedicated her book,  Why Men Marry Bitches,  to her discovery that a woman  with an independent mind and doesn’t give in all the time is more alluring.

It is all based on human nature.

Men like a challenge. Just like a woman thinks they can make the jerk off turn over his leaf, a man believes he can one day capture the heart of the ice princess.  It is almost like Shakespeare’s  Taming of the Shrew, a guy always wants what they can’t have.  The thrill of chasing the unobtainable is far more exhilarating.

Women who fear being distinguished as a “bitch,” coincide the term with nagging, bickering, rudeness, insensitivity, and even abuse.  Yet, this is not the type of “bitch” that men have grown to love.

In Why Men Marry Bitches, Argov defines the word “bitch” as  a confident and secure woman.

On GuySpeaks.com, Nick Nadel, a sucker for mean girls who recalls having a crush on his babysitter who use to lock him in the closet, shares his annoyance with a society who labels women who are strong-willed as bitches (a topic for another day).

If you want to start being the “bitch” every man wants, remember these necessary steps (just to name a few):

1.  Never jeopardize what you like or who you are for anyone, especially   not a man.

2.  Be Protective of your feelings and your own happiness.

3.  Don’t fell pressured to be physical before you are ready.

4.  Keep yourself a mystery.

Do Men Really Prefer Bitches?

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